Thanks RSG, you are on the money. I know that how ever all this works out I can hold my head up knowing I have it all I had to get my family back.
I am 6 months into separation but only 5 days in since finding out about OM. My mindset is totally different now. I will be strong and not let her dictate terms. This will be hard but I will stay strong. For me and my D.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16