I have been trying because I WANT my W and family back, I don't need her back.
Don't know anything about your situation, but this is something I just came to realize about a week to 10 days ago. I'm going on week 8 of my Separation. I do much, much better when I don't see her. S and I are creating a fantastic bond, he loves me more than ever. I'm confident in myself, my looks and who I am. I read lots of self help books, and I've started counseling.
I want to try because I want to look my boy in the eyes in 15, 20, 30 years and tell him I did EVERYTHING I could for his family.
Good luck to you. Try to keep your conversations centered around specific info re your D. I'm in the midst of going dim, and WW really tries to stretch the conversation. You need to try to end them, text or phone, as much as possible. It's hard at the beginning but you get the hang of it.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
