Thanks Mules, you basically just said everything I played out in my head. And I honestly do believe it. I have been trying because I WANT my W and family back, I don't need her back.

I have a solid job earning good money have my own home and a great extended family and support network around me. Time to move forward.

ME- 31 W-25
T-5 M-3
D2
ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16
W seeing someone else - JUL16