That's the hardest part, coming to the realization that she is not the person you married. For me I had so much fear. If I knew then what I know now....

Please take care of yourself. Concentrate on that daughter and you. I spent so much time trying to detach that I kept doing it wrong. Be a strong, leading man who is a father and is getting on with his life. You don't need your W to be happy. You need to make your own happiness. I was so caught up in worrying about her every mood. It was ridiculous. Let her worry about you. Be mysterious with your own time. If she sends you text messages don't answer them if she is still with OM unless it has to do withh your daughter.

Strong. Confident. Leading.

You got this.

Strength and Honor.

Mules

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.