RDS, I hear you and thank you for sharing! My fear is if I'm entirely hands off and too detached he may make assumptions that I'm done. I think this because even remarks like, let's talk about this later sets him off defensively. I am being cheerful and quick to laugh and going with the friendship suggestion from DB coach. The lighthouse has to feel safe and welcoming when they peek in. I'm Working through my stuff and hope he will join me soon. He was almost out of MLC and went back in so here we go again. Take care, Colleen
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
