I will totally disagree with you sir. I do understand where you are coming from but my tolerence for pain must be less than yours. I am unwilling to wait 5 years for a woman who cheated on my multiple times over the course of 10 years or more. I took my ring off and told her that I was moving out. August 1st is my target date. I have two places lined up, neither are ideal or as nice as what we owned. There has been little communication between us which is fine. What communication we have had has been unproductive to say the least. It doesn't seem to go back and forth. Either I email and never hear back from her or she emails, I respond and then I never hear back from her. She continues to have her married boyfriend..but my detachment level is off the charts. I went camping and rafting with a bunch of people from work this weekend, I would also say that my GAL is much improved, I really do care less what she does. The 3 months of misery are over. I am ready to move on from the turmoil and drama. I do think over time we should be able to be good co-parents, however now all the sudden she has differing opinions than me. So we shall see where this goes. Hope all is well with everyone.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder