Episode 3 - The Divorce Awakens

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I'm having so much difficulty seeing what the other option is. Let's say you "give up " DB. What then?

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I also wanted to thank you for supporting me and being there to talk me through my BS, I really appreciate everything.

I guess I'm not 'giving up' DB. I'm just 'giving up caring what happens next' - because I think I've reached the point where I've pretty much done everything to fix the problems that contributed to my marriage problems, and I've already tried to reach out and apologized for things I've done and tried to make them right. I feel like I'm at the point where there's nothing else for me to do or say. I'm planning to go 'minimal contact' from now on, only communication about the kids. And if she wants to move ahead with selling the house and fast tracking the D proceedings - I'm good with that, I won't stand in the way of that - because I've done everything I could do. At this point I'll be cordial and civil - but I will be interested in getting things done so I can move on with my life, instead of second guessing everything I say or do and worrying everything to death. It will be much less stressful and clear cut.