Keep being nice, being helpful, supportive, encouraging, appreciative, etc etc etc. Just like you would if you were courting a friendship with someone you just met. [/quote]
I'm confused. I like this advice but does it not conflict with the 180?? Do you do this only when WH is acting appropriately and 180 when he's being an a$$?
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again