I don't think contacting him about his mail is an issue. I think the problem is that you'll try to prolong the contact and that may tend to drive him further away.
That was my thinking, that it probably wouldn't be an issue to do that in and of itself. I definitely don't plan on taking the conversation any further than that, but then...I guess what would be my point in the first place?
He'd probably just say "okay thanks" and end the conversation there, so there's not really anything I'd be getting out of it. I don't see him saying much else past that. Maybe he would though. I'm at a loss.
M 24 H 27 together 6 • married 3.5 BD round #3: 07/10/2016