And what do you mean by 'saves'? Those people wouldn't eventually regain lives and self respect through time and a good support group?

I came here to save my marriage, if I merely wanted to accept and feel better I would have simply bought books off amazon, talked to my support group ans therapist and spent time working on my career or at the gym.


...I'm sorry. I'm scared and frustrated. I'm pretty depressed and coming out of a hospital stay.

Last edited by Cadet; 08/17/16 11:36 AM. Reason: combine posts

Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs
D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs
BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16