Divorce busting and this board pretty much saved my sanity through my D and gave me lifelong friends who I am pretty close with. DB surely got me through many horrors of divorcing. I wouldn't have come so far or be the person I am today without it and I think it has given many tools to carry into my new R's.
I see what you are saying about DB busting divorces. Does it work in that area? Sometimes, and a small percentage. However, I think divorcebusting would pretty successful at busting divorces if people actually started doing it before bomb drop. before the sh!t hits the fan. If more people checked in with the reality of their marriages more often.
That's my take on it after 8 years on these boards and a my divorce.
