Detaching.....nearly there..

[Surfer]

Also, I have another problem. When the WW (who is presumably no longer in an EA - she did stop, I am sure) wants me to have the kids on certain days my mind goes over and over worrying if she is trying to get certain dates free so she can be with wayward friends or potentially an OM. Not sure what to do about this - i.e. not care, interrogate, say no etc. Perhaps try not to worry about it. Her time is hers etc. Perhaps more positive self talk rather than negative....?