Originally Posted By: qt4x11
Let me just say - why did I even bother with 'divorce busting'? 'DB' just seems to prolong the suffering, it would have just been easier to go full 'no contact' as soon as the BD. In fact just going 'full no contact' would probably be healthier psychologically and more effective than the whole mental jiu jitsu of 'DB'.


i think its entirely possible that we mis-interpret DBing as trying to reconcile. It did say to go no-contact (to a certain degree). To GAL, 180, not be around her.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.