I'm right there with you, trying to detach - feeling sad, then feeling angry. Wanting it to be over somehow, but also wanting your spouse back. There's not much I can say other than I'm going through the same, and I know how most of the things I could say would just seem like empty platitudes so I won't bother. Just take it one day at a time.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
