I'm trying to get WH to do what he had promised to do to get my possessions moved here. It's like pulling teeth - but it usually is when I need something (can someone's love language actually be Passive Aggressive?). For some reason, he doesn't seem to think I should move all of my stuff now - but it would be more expensive to split it up.

I couldn't get a hold of him all day, and eventually found out he had been out jetskiing with OW. He sounded more relaxed than I had heard him since she moved in. Obviously, they have made up and she's not moving out at this point.

Clearly I was more invested in her potential departure than I thought. I was surprised when he told me about it to begin with because I thought it would have lasted longer, maybe years, but I realize that it also got my hopes up. I'm not even sure for what - I know the M wasn't what it should have been for a long time. I guess I just hate that she has stolen my life.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17