The longer I'm away from my wife, the more ievitible our divorce seems. I find myself wondering what I'm fighting for, who I'm fighting for, and even whether I'm fighting at all when we simply act as if we're already divorced and simply lack the legal documents indicating it.

Shouldn't my wife be coming out of the fog? Shouldn't she at some point come to me and say something, whether it's she still doesn't know what she wants or that she wants to divorce or wants me to come home?

How do you know when it's time to simply accept that your wife isn't coming back and waiting for her to file is in some way letting her eat cake and delaying you from healing and moving on with your life?


M: Late 30s W:Late 30s
S: 4 D:2

Known: 19
Together:8
Married:5

ILYINILWY: 8/2015
EA: Confirmed 9/2015, Started 8/2015?
PA: No evidence, W Denies
D: Planned for Spring 2016