Question... So many things I do or say can be taken as criticism or can have him feel like a jerk , a consequence of his actions it's true. Do they get more down on themselves and cause further distance and emotional damage becos of shame, and then I'm seen in a more negative light?

Seems like we can't win! frown


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again