I am sorry he is vilifying you. They are just awesome at pinning all the blame on us. Mine is all rainbow and sunshine being nice so i don't contest the divorce but telling everyone what a monster i have been.. meanwhile..He has been in a relationship ..be it long distance this whole time..yet it is my fault. I just keep thinking this is making me a better person and a great mom. My D day is next month and he is ecstatic..that just makes it sting more. Keep your head up stay strong
