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[Surfer]

Ifm. Sorry to see your have a cr@ppy time of it all. It's not fun, but it is tolerable and it will get better. In terms of telling the kids, my WW walked with the kids on 6/6/(201)6 a - spooked eh 666! She moved all her things out whilst I took the kids away and played pretend happy families - knowing what was happening. We have S6 and D8. They are fine now but it was very painful telling them. We all cried. I really recommend telling them together, keeping it factual and have the same script. They will cry for a while but it won't last long. They will then just talk to you about how they feel - sporadically of course. That's the hard bit but again it's tolerable. i guess we all tend to assume that it will all be a terrible disaster but that's not always the case.

All the best..