Oh I feel for you ciluzen! You have such a good attitude come out of all this pain. I admire your courage and strength to move on! Does he know you are looking for another guy? Did the mediation happen?

I'm at the beginning of all this in some ways. Mine only talked about divorce when he was drunk except a month ago he spewed crap and the first line was we might as well get divorced. I keep saying he's the one that has to file but if I can't find half of your strength, then I may have rethink it.
Hugs to you!!

Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again