I appreciate the honest responses from everyone.

I can't really answer how I would feel if my W done a 180 and wanted to fix everything, the sad fact is that right now I'm happier then I've been in years.

I understand what everyone is saying with regards to OW and do agree with the points made. I am going to meet her on Wednesday because she is an old friend I've not seen in many years, it will be nice to catch up. I'm not looking for a R or rebound, this isn't in my nature and I will make this clear with her.