Thank Dark.. I am not really looking to change anything. I am just looking for some feedback if I am doing that sends out red flags to the DB'ing community. Or maybe some advice. K The worst worst worst case scenario is we get back together only to be back here in a few years. I'd rather get divorced now but I do not have a crystal ball. It is a weird spot to be in. LRT etc was easier in some ways.
I guess one thing to do is to really think about what it would take for us to get back together so that I am at least ready for the conversation, not that I would expect that.
