WW came over today to drop off S4. I followed with 180. I was polite, but short with my answers. Did not get the you are weird or whats wrong stuff this time. She tried to give me a lecture about putting sun screen on our son. In the past I would have made a big deal about knowing how to do it an telling her it would be ok. Instead I just handed WW the sunscreen and said "I can see that this bothers you. Would you be more comfortable if you did this before leaving?" She screened him up while I went to the other room for a minute. Then she tried to tell me she got a bill for me on the furniture. WW never managed the bills in the M, I did. I told her I could understand the confusion, but the bill was hers for all of the new furniture she had bought herself when she and I started the S. No fight, WW just realized she had mismanaged a few monetary things for herself.
She was leaving in her car and I was out walking the dog. She shouted a flirty statement at me and drove off. I just nodded. Its one thing to tell people to detach, but it is another to get there. I feel so good about what awakened in me yesterday. I have a long way to go, but finally I am not trying to feel confident about myself within the sitch. I am feeling confident about myself regardless of it.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
