There is no OM involved as far as I am aware. Her life is very simple. She doesn't go out and just looks after the kids and goes to work. She is however, a planner. I also think that she enjoys things the way they are. We live separately but meet up to have family time and I am around if she needs help or just someone to chat to. If I move on, all this would stop so I wonder if she has to suffer some losses to really appreciate what she had.
The only way she could reel me back in would be to stop the divorce and agree to work on the marriage. So far, nothing has changed for her. She still lives in the house and I still pay the mortgage and give her money for the children. I am still around and there is no threat from anyone else. She has the best of both worlds. She has mentioned that she no longer wants a sexual relationship with a man again which I find hard to believe but she seems content with being on her own.
Any strategies here would be of great help.
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
