2x4 time... WW asked me join her for happy hour which was nice and we had a good time. (more on this later as the conversation was interesting form the Pursuit and Distance perspective)
Afterwards WW and I went to a local cigar lounge/bar and sat outside and shared a cigar. 2 younger gentlemen sat down at our table and we had nice conversation. WW was pretty drunk and said "you two want to go inside and play darts" and they all got up to go inside and I got up as well. I took it as I wasn't invited and said told WW that it's probably time to leave. I closed out the tab and said lets go. She said no I want to stay. So after a few attempts to convince her to leave I left. When I got home D16 asks "wheres Mom" and I said "at the bar talking to other men" (I was borderline drunk). I went to bed and about 10 minutes later D16 woke me up and asked "should we go get Mom"? I said sure you drive and I'll go in and get her. So we go to the bar and she is sitting with one of the two men from earlier. I said "Your daughter is outside" I grabbed her purse and went outside. Put the purse in the car and D16 locked the car door. D16 tried for several minutes to convince WW to come home or D16 would take her to a friends house. WW was adamant about staying so I told D16 "fine lets go home".
I walked down to the gas station to get some Advil and when I got back D16 and D14 were both going to a friends house which I thought was a great idea. They left so I put some of WW's clothes on the front porch and went up to bed. 20 mins later the doorbell rings and it's WW in tears. I said "you're not sleeping here tonight you need to find someplace else to sleep" She called me "Jerk" "Idiot" "F you" "I hate you" hit me open handed on the chest. I said a few things in response that I'm not proud of. She drove away in tears.
I tried to reach her several times today as I was concerned for her safety. She finally responded that she was OK and was coming home to get some work things. She was visibly angry and said "I don't know if we can recover from this one" I didn't respond. She basically said she can't stand my jealousy and insecurity and controlling (something I will work on in IC).
After she left she sent a couple texts: "Boy do I regret asking you to join me. I won't make that mistake again" "You ruin ever nice moment we have"
I responded: "Every major fight we've had involved too much alcohol on both our parts"
