So, I just briefed through some of these other posts. While reading one, an MLC item came up. It occurred to me that I had not explored MLC. I went to a few websites on women's MLC's. My WW had many of the signs listed. Ex, a few months before the A began she began talking out of nowhere about wanting to fish, wanting to rock climb (she never did these things), She claimed she couldn't handle the "roles" of marriage/motherhood, etc. She wanted to take a break, be an individual again. All this was months before the A began. The fact that her A is with a younger man. The fact that she says she does not know how she feels about us to the next day saying she knows we will be back together again one day. These things were all listed on a few of the MLC sites I looked up.
At this point as I said above, I am feeling pretty over it, but would an MLC versus just a straight up A change the game any? I can't see how I would need to stop doing what I am doing since it makes me feel better.


"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies.
BD: Feb '16
D: Mar '17
Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing.
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