Oh, and the 180 is for you, not him. It's to help make you a healthier person, less codependent and make yourself the best person you can be. That way you win regardless of what happens to your marriage.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
