Don't over think? bwa ha ha ha!!! I'm 48 it's very hard for me not to over think stuff. I'll do my best. I'm going out with the gals to an art show with popsicles. We moved a year ago and this has been the easiest move yet. I've met so many fun people.
Vanilla thank you.
Job, The deadline for the inspection period was thursday. We decided to go ahead with it. He is very good at fixing things up and having a project focuses him in a good way. I know it's kind of absurd. I cancelled the attorney for Friday because I needed to orient and re-write my list of questions due to changing circumstances. I've talked to them and a few others over the phone.
We own another home in LA that I bought first and we did a refi on. If we divorce we'd have two homes to sell. The area is so tough on renters. Mortgages are 1K less a month than rentals and the place would be easy to divide into two units to lower costs so I felt like either way it could work. I know there's a lot of rationalizing and denying but we have been together for 16 years at this point we'd both prefer it could work out. He wants it to work out. What he's doing about that - I don't know but with 180 it doesn't matter - I'm doing my own thing. I'm almost over my jealousies. I have no reason to believe he has ever cheated on me so I can't keep being suspicious forever. That's part of what has poisoned stuff for us. (that's my part) Anyway, more will be revealed. Thank you all for looking in on me.
