[BrightFuture]

Thanks 2T and mleigh for stopping by. I don’t seem get much traffic on my thread lately, which is probably due to the fact that I’m not active on the board as much, even though I keep reading other threads and try to keep up with my friend’s updates here and try to post when I can.

I’ve been still very busy with work and extra projects that I agreed to take outside of my main job. It am very exhausted and can’t wait for one of the side projects to be finished. I’ve putting about 10-15 hours per week on that one. And… my social life has been insane… Lots of happy hours and parties recently… Not mentioning dealing with condo purchase processing (which is not going smoothly BTW) and the car transfer, etc.

My friends at the vacation home were in no hurry to process the car ownership transfer to their names. I waited long enough and finally lost my patience. I almost yelled at them a few days ago when they told me that I needed to mail the title for the car to start the transfer. I sent the title along with the additional car keys and other docs when the car was picked up from me by a friend and H. I lost it… How can you be so irresponsible about things like that!!? Apparently they left that plastic bag with the title inside at their office. Whew… I thought I would have to file for a title replacement, which would create additional head ache for me.

They also wanted to take a vacation and drive the car to the US next month, without finishing the transfer. They asked if I could add this car back to my insurance and they would pay me the cost. Umm… NO! This is not my car anymore! I explained to them that I can do that, but if something happens and a claim is filed against my insurance, would they be willing to pay the increased insurance difference for all other cars on the policy, including my new expensive car? They changed their mind pretty quickly and started the process, like in a hurry, LOL.

I’m going to the vacation home next week with my sister and her son. I hope that I can take the possession of my new condo, but it is not guaranteed. There is some kind of delay in the paper work processing. I told my mutual friends that I’m not paying the money before I can get the keys to the condo.

On H’s front… He went MIA for some time and kind of reverted back to more “dry” style of communication and “dropped” my name from the texts, hahaha. I am continuing to be polite for now… Apparently he’s asked the condo mortgage company to remove the escrow collection, so he could take over the annual payments to the Mexican trust for the condo. I’ve received the letter the other day stating that they would not do that. I e-mailed it to him today and let him know by the text. He is not happy.

I have these conflicting feeling about the whole thing… I have some feelings of revenge on one side, that H is struggling to get things in order, and then I feel so sorry for H and so sad about the situation he put himself into and how he destroyed all the good things for all of us… I almost felt guilty yesterday, thinking how “we” could have refinanced my (“our”) house mortgage and just pay for that condo and not have to deal with the mortgage and escrow, etc… if… we would still be a couple… And how I just did this refinance to buy my own condo… and left H in the dark to deal with the rest… I need to slap myself on the face… and remind myself that this was H’s choice… I think he knows that too, and this is probably why he went MIA.

It is very hot here. I don’t have air conditioner in the house, so I’m going shopping and then to my sister’s. Have a great weekend everyone.