EDF, RDS, And Cadet... input is so appreciated! I'm thinking about the whole sex thing and why I would or would not want to. There are pros and cons. Yesterday WH asked me to go to see the new star trek movie. We went, had a nice time then went food shopping while we waited to pick up S18. We were chatting, nothing heavy, and got talking about sleep issues each of us have had in the last month. One month ago today he moved out of the mbr. He also told me he's been taking naps in my bed. So that's why he's been making my bed! I told him I missed having him in our bed. Long silence before he said, well it is a comfortable bed. I left it after that and continued to chat on another topic. Temperature taking? Maybe. I was just compelled to let him know he was missed without the pressure of an R convo.
I'm leaving today for four days and I don't plan to contact WH in any way, just my kids. I want to really make a solid restart of project me. I will look into the MLC board and read my current books too, like DR and solo partner. I have another session booked for Wednesday before I get home. It has occurred to me that he'll move back into mbr while I'm gone. I'll deal with that when and if it happens. Will have to give it some thot tho so I do not react to anything he might toss at me.
Question.... what do I need to know differently about sex addiction vs affairs only? THANKS!
Me54 WH48 S18 D16 M 22 T 24 EA-PA-EA 2011-2015 Separated 10/14 - 06/15 BD1 02/14 BD2 05/16 BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again Working on me and liking me again
I told him I missed having him in our bed. Long silence before he said, well it is a comfortable bed. I left it after that and continued to chat on another topic. Temperature taking? Maybe. I was just compelled to let him know he was missed without the pressure of an R convo. 
