If your goal is to reconcile, I think going is taking you farther away.
This is a giant slice of cake you're letting her eat. She's with OM now - it isn't your job to go to her family events to assuage her guilt and keep up appearances.
How do I 180 that one? What do I say to her father who does not know? What do I tell her w/out telling her that I know the affair continues?
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
