Originally Posted By: albac

What are people's thoughts on this? I am having my own cake for my D and to me what she's asking is pretending to be a family when right now we are not. I honestly don't even want to step foot in her house. Any feedback appreciated I'm very confused


I agree with you. I would not step foot in her house. I would have a separate time with your D and have your cake with her. Your W has currently destroyed your family. I would not pretend otherwise.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day