I haven't said it lately, but I used to tell h that d wasn't the answer. I haven't said it in a while because I was/am fearful that he thinks I'm still holding on in an attached kind of way and Not in a detached logical yet loving way. (If that makes sense). I've been pretty silent about my feelings for a long long while.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16