I wonder what the reaction would be if you told him it's not his? That might stir things up a little bit? Up for some fun!? no no, jk.
Originally Posted By: Cherry
The other day he even said to ignore the words he says and look at his actions.
Oh, you mean the actions that he's still actively pursuing an A with someone else? yeah, those actions speak much more gently than the bullsh1t he's spewing out of his mouth. (Sorry, I'm kind of in a foul mood right now... forgive me?)
Originally Posted By: Cherry
I guess the fear of loosing him keeps me from doing this.
You love this man, that's why we married our spouses, regardless of their known/unknown flaws... but if this day ever becomes permanent, I hope you know in your heart that you're not the one who drew the short straw for the future... That's why we are putting in the work we are right now... to "know" that we are that "catch" that most people would dream of having, holding, for life... sure, we've made mistakes, but it's time to drop the past, focus the now, create superstars with who we our authentic selves are... hang in there Chry... You got this
no no, jk.