Thanks EDF, lfm, & Darknes. Clearly I really hope it does. She just called, we had to speak on some S4 matters, but the conversation switched to her new job acceptance. I backslid from my #15 slightly, not far, but I have to admit it to you all so that I see it said out loud and understand it myself. I was far from doing backflips and used Wonka's validation the entire time "you must be really proud of yourself for making this decision" Again, understanding that fine line between the 180 and allowable conversation to be polite and supportive can be a bit grey. And, while I meant what I said, it is the best move for her career (read as hopefully if nothing else it will benefit my S4 too), I did have ulterior horses in the race. Thanks everyone. I am sure I will check back in later.
PS, reading DR book - great - I feel way more application than the DB.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6