Emotional abuse is worse than broken bones because broken bones heal, but a broken mind never heals
This is rubbish... sounds like something a weak-willed person would say to put blame on someone else for their misfortunes. Mental health, outside of genetic/chromosomal, is something that we each choose to handle within ourselves. She's basically saying her mental health and her happiness was laid solely as a responsibility of someone else (you).
I'm not making excuses, I'm guilty of my share of emotional neglect as well. I never saw the actions I did as neglect WHILE I was committing them, as whenever my W reached out to "tell me how she's feeling", she did it in a way that was insulting, demeaning, or attacked who I was as a person... naturally, those to things mixed together don't mesh well, and you end up with a spouse who thinks they've "done everything they can" to reach out, and the "neglector" as just shoved it all aside, which is rarely true in circumstance... Our MC pointed this out, and the day it was pointed up, my W decided she was no longer interested in MC...
You're W is throwing out everything she can to the public to gain the support of others in what she is doing is right, and YOU are the devil! Really, all she's doing is piling on her own guilt and worry and making things 'mentally/emotionally' worse for herself... What kind of person posts that crap out to the public eye anyways? One who's unsure of themselves and looking for answers to justify herself in any way she can... horrible.
