wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[Raul]

EDF,
Yes. I am done with the pursuing. After 2 months, I have made things much worst. I have read Sandi's rules and read the book Divorce Remedy, and did not follow the guidelines like I should have. I would go 4 days NC and then text her how much we miss her. I would still call her honey and she would get very mad.

As of GAL, in June, I actually took motorcycle classes. I bought myself a motorcycle (a cheap used one) and enjoy riding it around. Made new friends at motorcycle class too. Still learning how to ride. It has built my confidence. I have also stepped out and made new friends whom had previously bad relationships but survived. I am actually thinking of starting a support group for break ups in my garage. I used to facilitate groups in prison, juvenile hall and support father programs. So I'm still thinking about it.