Have you committed to really stopping the pursuing behavior, or are you still actively pursuing?
Also, what kind of GAL activities are you doing? Spending time with your daughters is great, but are you exploring or rediscovering any other personal interests/activities/friendships? How about exercise?
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11