wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[lt0402]

Raul, sorry to see you here man. Read the other threads around here because it's helpful from the perspective of dealing with your WW and also with getting yourself to a better place. You're not alone, and while you think your situation is uncommon, the knowledge that it's not is oddly comforting. A lot of great people here who are very supportive.

I'm also working through my WWs anger and shutoff of communications between us. It's extremely frustrating, but what I've learned is I can't control or change her. All I can do is control and change myself and make sure my D and I are strengthening our relationship. You need to focus on the same. Work on making yourself into the best man you can be and continue being a rock for your kids. If your MR works out, great, if not then you're setup for success in your next R.

Outside of that, I'm still working through my situation, so others here are better with more detailed advice. Keep your head up and keep grinding bud!