I see what you're saying. I like that!! I may try that one tonight. It's been so hard to be dim, I feel like an a-hole knowing she's crying but I know it's something I need in order to see what life's like w/o her and vice versa.

No, I stopped asking about how he's doing. She sends a few pictures on weekends, will ping me for advice and if there's a problem no matter how small. This is outside of real communication as well. "He needs XYZ at school today" "Do you have the shoes" etc.


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.