Man, first off it felt good to see (wife has backtracked) at your signature - I hope it remains sir. For a place called DB, there sure seems to be a fair share of D here.
Irony in your answer to me. I too got the complaint that her roles as mother/spouse/job/HM controlled her. Here comes the irony, sounds like both our WW are in an A they feel in control of. Right? What they are not in control of is themselves. I've read enough psych and M pages/books/articles in the past 6 months to understand the A is an addiction. This explains why your WW can admit she has no future with her A and why mine told me she did, but lied about it - I was addicted to OXY for two years. I lied to myself, my friends, and my family about it the entire time. It was only once I realized the pain my absence had caused to my S4 and WW that I realized what I had done to myself. I had to get there on my own before I could rebuild. If you have read my entire post, you will see that my main struggle is what to do so that my WW can understand she is approaching bottom. And yes, you are correct sir, MR has a huge blinking ? on it, but my self confidence does not. I just want to be sure I don't backslide on it.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
