I am sorry about the discoveries. I agree, you have given him 20 years of a good marriage.
Just take it all in, process it and continue to heal.
We are here for you dear Phoebe.
(((Phoebe)))
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...