With time, it gets more complicated

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Melo: I don't mean to pile on her but there is some sound advice from our crew here. The idea of a set amount makes the most sense. It will be consistent and true/reliable to the agreement you make. Any "extra" cash you can decide on how to spend on your family. Further, I know you are trying to rebuild your career and financial status and sometimes that means we need to take a pay cut before the next step or go a couple of weeks with no pay. So a small cushion is a good idea so if you do fall short, you won't miss a payment.