Originally Posted By: CT1118


She said "I'm sorry to keep asking you this but is something, wrong? I feel like you have been so different with me the past few days." I said nothing is wrong, I feel great. She paused and asked if I was sure. I said yes, I feel great, I am looking forward to a night with our son. She said ok with a clear question mark and I said ok I will talk to you later. Her goodbye and then hang up.

I definately left her confused. I was briefly tempted to text some BS, but stopped myself by reminding myself how confused she has left me. Is it supposed to feel like this? Reading my posts from today, am I actually doing this right, half right, no where close?


CT, your doing fine, it takes a little bit of time to stop sounding like your reading from a script and apply to the rules to words that sound natural for you. The trick is to sound indifferent, not like your saying words that someone is whispering in your ear.. It's not easy, and that's why many times saying less is more.

I think your doing well in providing info, even quoting the rule your following, it helps remember the guidelines (it shows the writer in you)... Just keep posting, things will come up that you will get advice on, but a lot of people don't respond when your doing the right thing.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized