And I understand the fear of not keeping your word. And believe me my stbxw has hammered me on that. But I know that what I offered my word on was when I was in the state of mind that I could "fix" things. I know I can't.
I have a friend that is still paying 15 years later because he was the nice guy. Get some legal advice and look at it from a legal and fair point of view for both of you. Trust me, that is what woke me up. She left you, why does she get the benefits of you as a H, when she does not want you as a H?
Makes no sense, right?
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
