Well. I had an interesting convo with H today, the first in about 2 weeks. We have texted about practical things but needed to talk to go over a list of things.

I asked him how he was and he said he has been better. Besides some new health problems (I think these are also stress-induced), he is fighting with OW and they had talked about splitting up. It sounds like he wants her to leave. He said he regrets letting her move in so quickly, and he regrets 'parts of' separating.

So it has gone from little Suzy Homewrecker who caters to his every whim, to fights and him getting angry because she was not doing something he expected her to. He wouldn't tell me exactly what it was about, but it sounds like things are going downhill pretty fast and he sounded almost excited about things maybe coming to a head this weekend.

I wish we had one of those popcorn-eating emojis here. I guess it wasn't all my fault, after all.

I couldn't help feeling amused when he told me about it, and he told me I had every right to.

As usual, he didn't ask me how I was, but I shared a little day to day stuff anyway.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17