Melo, remember, she has fired you as her H. Do you provide financial support to friends or other family members?
Keep that in mind and that may help. Re read the homework on detachment. Working on that can help you not fall into the trap of trying to "fix" things for her. Not your role as the fired H right?
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine