Ok so running this through my mind ....I say to Wife ok I am not going to do this any longer tell her I have asked an estate agent to come arround to give us a valuation on (or rather to give me a valuation) with the view to selling.
I tell her I will be speaking with a solicitor to find out my legal position and I move forward with selling ...she has already told me that when the house sells she will file for divorce
So she is totally free to go out with whoever she wants date bring anyone home to her house and live 100% apart from me build a new life without me I don't want this to happen ..Do I sound controlling ....I do not want my W to move on from me ....do I sound needy
So I am needy and controlling and scared to build a life without my W sound about right
I am [censored]
She has left the marriage yet I still cling on to hope and the past ...time to watch some,YouTube ted,talk
Nope. All of that is a waste of energy.
What you need to be doing is these things instead:
Working at your weight loss (which apparently has been your goal for a year now....) Going out and getting a life - how are the dance classes coming? How are the tennis outings going? Working to improve your relationships with your children - how are things going with your oldest? With the baby?
