Have to keep making the changes

[ATPeace]

Ok so running this through my mind ....I say to Wife ok I am not going to do this any longer tell her I have asked an estate agent to come arround to give us a valuation on (or rather to give me a valuation) with the view to selling.

I tell her I will be speaking with a solicitor to find out my legal position and I move forward with selling ...she has already told me that when the house sells she will file for divorce

So she is totally free to go out with whoever she wants date bring anyone home to her house and live 100% apart from me build a new life without me I don't want this to happen ..Do I sound controlling ....I do not want my W to move on from me ....do I sound needy

So I am needy and controlling and scared to build a life without my W sound about right

I am [censored]

She has left the marriage yet I still cling on to hope and the past ...time to watch some,YouTube ted,talk