As a remark to 180 and to say to you all that when Sandi2 spoke about the women testing the 180was true here is what happened today. I have been doing 180 for maybe two days now. I posted above about how WW was telling me I was being weird and was I ok. She did that this morning when were discussing our kid as I said above. I felt good about it, but did wonder if it was right. Well, it was, but I screwed it up I think. Around noon I got an email from her absolutely gushing about how inspiring I am as a man, how I gave her an amazing child, how I am a great dad, how she did not know what our future would be together, but that she thanks me for all of the support over the years. Then she ended by telling me she did not deserve me. I must say, I did believe her, but had rule 32 in my head. I stared at it and thought about what MWD says in DB - do something different. Even 2 weeks ago I would have thanked for the kind words at a minimum, and maybe even commented, but I didn't because that is what she would have expected. All I said was "Not saying anything is the best response to this". Which I see now is a response, but I was thinking hey, this will be unexpected and she won't reply, she will have to think on it. She wrote back immediately, "yup, that is very perceptive". Sheeeet. I feel like I lost that one.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6